MY FIRST BLOG

Natalie O'Sullivan • May 28, 2020

I’m sat here in the sun, with an ice cold (soft) drink next to me, listening to the neighbour’s music trying to write my very first blog.

Hi, I’m Natalie. The face and force behind Fylde Holistic Therapies. I thought I would write my very first blog about me. To give you a little insight into who I am, what drives me and why, but also what I hope you will get from this blog. 


MY MASSAGE JOURNEY

I had my very first massage at the age of 16, I was in my GCSE year at school and was stressed! My mums’ friend was learning Aromatherapy massage and so, me and my mum volunteered to become case studies for her. Little did I know this was quite a pivotal moment for me. My first session was incredible. I had follow-up sessions regularly right through my A Levels and honestly believed they helped me manage my stress enough to pass with flying colours.

Fast forward to 2012, I’m going through a horrible divorce and decide to do something to take my mind of things. So, I sign up to do a weekend “introduction to massage” course.

There are many things about me, which I’m sure you will come to learn as I write more but for now, the two most relevant are that I am and have always been a very tactile person. I love a good hug. The other is that I love learning. I get so much energy from learning new skills and theories that it really invigorates me.
That weekend course was my second pivotal moment. I fell in love with massage. It combined two things I loved doing, being tactile and learning. At the end of the weekend the tutor pulled me to one side and said, “You have to do your qualification!”. I’m not sure what she had seen in me, but she hadn’t said it to anyone else, so I went away to think about it.

I signed up to do my Level 3 in body massage. Then I met the person who has been the single most influential person in my massage journey. She was my tutor. Her name is Kerry Wallace. You will hear me talk a lot about Kerry, as she is still a very important mentor to me but now, I also consider her a friend as well.
That is where the journey started. Since then, I have done many other qualifications and learned many skills, but those were my humble beginnings.



WHY MASSAGE

From that very first weekend, I fell in love with being able to help people. Massage is not just about ‘stroking’ someone. It's about warming the muscles up, finding those areas of tension, encouraging the muscles to let go of whatever stress or injury they have been holding onto. One of the most satisfying things is to feel that tight muscle I’m working on finally relax in my hands. Its also as much about working out how that area of tension is affecting other areas of the body and getting them to let go. This is realignment, when you encourage the body back into the way it should be and not where it has gotten used to being due to modern life.  I get as much satisfaction from giving massage as my clients get receiving it.

I’ve had clients completely unable to turn their head before a treatment, jump off the bed at the end and do a happy dance because they can move their neck and there is no more pain.

I’ve had clients who believed that losing their shoulder mobility was a sign of old age, but after their first ever massage realizing that, after 8 years of living in pain, that it all stemmed from built up tension and that regular massage can relieve the tension and the pain and give them back a quality of life, they thought was only for people younger than them.

This is why I love massage, it is a very practical way of helping people cope with modern day life, of easing the pain without medication, of giving you back your range of motion that your body is designed to have and more importantly giving you the best quality of life I can, and I haven’t even touched on the benefits to mental health.



MOVING FORWARD

If you are still reading, great! Thank you! Now, I’m guessing you’re wondering why I decided to start writing a blog, and also why you should continue reading it. Well I’ve been in the massage business now 8 years. I’ve got oodles of knowledge. All of which I happily hand out to my clients regularly, but I thought it would be a good idea to write it down and start sharing it with you, the reader. So here it is. I’m hoping you will be able to use this blog to make small but impactful changes to your lifestyles to help you live the best life possible. We only get one body, and we really need to look after it.  There are small (and some big) changes we can make which will drastically improve our quality of life and I’m hoping that even if you make one small change to improve things as a result of my blogs then I will be a very happy woman.

So for now I will leave you with one of my favourite quotes:


“If we listen to our body when it whispers, we won’t ever have to hear it scream”

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