COVID Catastrophe

Natalie O'Sullivan • July 13, 2020

I keep hearing the phrase, “we’re all in the same boat” with regards to this lock down, and I have to say I’m sorry but it’s rubbish. 




As I’m writing this we are coming to the end of week 10 of lock down, I still have at least 5 more weeks before I am allowed back to work, but think this is going to be relevant long after lock down is ended as well as now.
I keep hearing the phrase, “we’re all in the same boat” with regards to this lock down, and I have to say I’m sorry but it’s rubbish. I prefer the saying:

“We’re all in the same storm, but we’re not in the same boat”

Why? Well I will give you a little insight into how I have been managing lock down. Now I’ve had to go onto Universal Credit (long and complicated story) but as a homeowner even on a mortgage holiday, that is not enough to cover my bills. So, my parents are helping where possible and buying me food. 

Whilst financially I am struggling (I mean really struggling) I have not let this stop me. I am using my time in lock down to be productive. I’ve done several courses online, I’ve done all the odd jobs around my house I’ve been meaning to do for ages, I’ve got on top of my fitness and nutrition ( at this point I have lost 12Kg in lock down). I am using this time to work on my business, working with a web developer on my new website (Do you like it?) and implementing ideas I’ve only been thinking about for ages.

But I know I am also in a very privileged position, I don’t have children to occupy or teach, I don’t have a partner working as a key worker, I am not working and putting myself in harms way. The Sun is shining, my rabbits are playing out and I’ve been given the gift of time.
This isn’t a gloat, or a plea for sympathy. This is a request for understanding. Most of the time we have no idea what other people are going through, what they’ve been through or how they are dealing with things. So, if you see something you don’t agree with (unless of course it’s breaking the law or putting someone in danger) then be kind. Either walk away and mind your business or offer them your support. I mean this in every aspect of life.

In the age of modern technology showing support can be as simple as liking someone’s post, or if they are going through a hard time but don’t really want to ask, drop them a message and say. “Just wanted to let you know I’m thinking of you and hope you’re doing OK. Reach out if you need help.”

Let’s get into the habit of supporting each other and if you’re friend has a small business and you can afford to help, then please do, because the small businesses are the ones who will really struggle after this is all over.
And if you can’t or don’t want to help, that’s fine too but please don’t make that person who is struggling feel bad about the choices they’ve had to make in order to survive this pandemic.

 “ What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make” – Jane Goodall
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